you want to take control and stop internet infidelity here is my best advice outlined
in my 23 page E-book. I have spent a decade listening and advising couples on
this internet addiction problem. Did you know internet addicts almost always lose
their jobs and drastically lose all "normality"? Read this shocking
story of what has happened to one family and can happen to yours!
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To Stop Internet Infidelity
JANE - A CASE STUDY OF INTERNET INFIDELITY
Woman's True Heartbreaking Struggle with Internet Infidelity
also known as The Relationship Breaker
told to AskMaple, Infidelity Survivor and Advisor
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All rights reserved.
For almost a decade I have been helping others with Internet
Infidelity. I have the facts as to exactly what is occurring and measures you
can take during this crisis to stop this from destroying your relationship or
marriage.It will destroy your marriage. Even if they are thousands of miles away
from each other they can and will leave.
Do you know why someone would allow an outsider into their relationship? This
is serious. Read
why I state you must act fast.
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e-book contains absolutely everything you need to know about stopping Internet
Infidelity. "Virtually everyone who cheats will do it electronically. What
we read scorches our eyebrows. Its not poetry, prose, flowers. Most of it is extraordinarily
explicit and emotionally betraying."
Collect your evidence. Get the Monitoring Software to see the entire picture.
This gets the affair out into the open. If your evidence reveals an affair - expose
spouses should agree to leave the Sniperspy software on their computer temporarily
until the spouse can feel more secure. Your spouse has to
let you play detective in order to rebuild trust. You can not rebuild trust
if you keep worrying about whether or not your spouse is telling you the truth.
If you suspend your suspicions and feelings, then they will rise to torment you
unless they are dealt with properly.
But of course, this will only work
if there has been a real change in your spouse.
Changing behavior and proof
will tell the truth.
The spouse is the one who broke the trust and they
have to come clean until your feelings are justified given time of course. Make
them aware of this and they need to show true remorse and convey they are truely
sorry. Hold them accountable.
I recommend the Sniperspy software to find out if they are cheating, it is imperative
that both partners seek an understanding as to why his/her is behaving this way.
Its a real problem as the computer is always in your face.
an internet affair is discovered, a predictable marital crisis ensues that often
brings the couple to therapy. The beginning of marital therapy is scarey to many
as each spouse is emotionally open and vulnerable. Spouses are surprised the other
feels hurt. The wounded spouse feels they can't get over what has occurred. The
spouse tells them to get over it. The internet is pervasive and here to stay.
Reluctance to change must first be resolved. With help, the couple moves toward
re-establishing trust and their sexual relationship. In the end, the couple will
have strengthened their ability to repair problems, look for the good in each
other, and find ways to successfully discuss and resolve issues.
Passwords Behind Asterisks ******
of the Month: To
Prevent Emotional Cheating:
clear about your commitment to a partner, clarifying the limits you both agree
upon concerning involvements with anyone else. I suggest you read about setting
boundaries. Develop that no lies and secrey policy.
your spouse recognize when they are "crossing the line" by investing
more attention, attachment or erotic attraction in someone other than you, and
turn those 3 A's to you the present partner if you want to stay together
in a healthy relationship.
as deeply with your partner as you would with any good friend. Remember it takes
time to rebuild trust. If you are having trust issues, read more - click
here. Its not an easy task and no one can tell you the timing. It can in fact
take years. We want to trust again.
the bond between you and your pattern strong, emotionally that means, make
efforts to keep those fires burning.
Melt Your Mans Heart