Your Marriage Be Saved if you have Committed Adultery?|
strong 90% of those I talk to discover their partner is having an affair want
to save the marriage. Others, who haven't been there, say, "You are crazy!
Kick him/her out!" I did - no actually I moved out. We had just bought our
first house together and I left. If he wanted me back he was going to have to
work very hard. But, it isn't that easy or simple is it?
want to save your marriage? But you're not sure if it's possible? You ask, "What
are my chances?"
it depends - on two BIG factors. First, What kind of affair faces you? I describe
7 different affairs in Break Free From the Affair and some are much easier to
save than others.
the odds of saving your marriage are not very good, if you continue in the same
old patterns. But, if you begin to do the "unexpected" your odds dramatically
the odds for saving your marriage in my mini-eBook, "Can Your Marriage Be
Saved?" If you want it all, check out Break Free From the Affair, which includes
the information from the this eBook.
Long Will This Take?
and research indicate it will take from 2 to 4 years to "work through"
a relationship crisis of this magnitude. That is it will take that long if you
"let time heal" or "let nature take its course" or cling to
your old patterns of relating.
can speed the process. You can break out of the mold. You can quicken the healing
and change. This site is here for that purpose. And, it's not really a mystery
how this is done. You can learn fairly simple skills which applied to the right
circumstances at the right time help you get much faster what you really want.
Most people haven't learned the skills or when to apply them so it seems like
a dark deep mystery. Not so.
*Is infidelity killing
your marriage... or you?
*Are you tired of all the lies, excuses and cheating?
*Are you afraid you won't survive the affair?
Be able to know what his/her next move might be. And, plan your words and actions
accordingly to change the flow of history. This is easier than you might think
- once you know the patterns.
Out Dr. Huizenga's Marriage Saving eBook today...don't be a victim of cheating
or quote the Bible.
you go to church then I am sure this really got your attention, and probably made
you a little angry.
dare you tell me that? The Bible tells me that affairs are wrong and my spouse
is wrong." Well, you are right. The Bible does say that and we believe
that too. However here's what we mean...
on a number of occasions we've run across those who throw Bible verses, selected
passages from books or talk show hosts comments about the immorality and path
of perdition he/she is following by engaging in an affair.
granted, engaging in an affair is sin because it certainly does miss the mark
in terms of having an authentic and truth-filled relationship and it certainly
has dire consequences in which the other does walk down a difficult path.
using this as a weapon to stop the affair brings dubious results at best.
about it. Would you really want him/her to come back to the relationship because
would that be like? He/she would be there because of moral compunction, not because
they really wanted to be with you. Could you live in a relationship of emotional
investment where someone was forced to be with you out of guilt or trying
to abide by some law?
pages 51 through 55 in his best selling e-book "Break Free From the Affair",
Dr. Robert Huizenga discusses how to stop yourself and change your attitude so
that instead of getting even with your spouse.
Out Dr. Huizenga's Successful Marriage Saving ethics today...don't delay...
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